My ex asked me to move in. That same night, I met someone else.

Progress started showing around New Year's — three very attractive women sat at our table and I felt completely at ease. Not nervous. Just present. Then my ex ran into me at a bar. She spent the night pulling me aside, inviting me over, asking me to move in. That same night I met someone I found incredibly attractive. We ended up making out outside the bar for half an hour. None of this felt forced. It just happened.