I have noticed a definite shift with WANTED. Historically I'm the one always wanting sex. She says I "ask for it" too much. I've started acting different now. She woke me up the following morning wanting a quickie. I said "maybe later. I gotta work on the car some more right now." She was surprised. Taken aback. "Come on, it won't take long." I indifferently said "I'll see how I feel after working on the car. I then paused and said it also depends on if you behave or not." Later that night, sex and a blow — which that is a rarity. Or should I say "was." The old me is dead. I admire him for having the strength of putting up with this behavior for over 26 years. Another change: I no longer hide the fact I'm checking out other women. I now have proof that I'm not the only one who would have me — a few have told me they wish I were single so we could have fun. The old me is dead.