On Khan my only job is to make her comfortable — everything else takes care of itself

On Khan I feel like my job is to make the girl comfortable. My ATM cards were all expired so she had to pay — I sent her half the money after. But I stayed calm, made the situation funny. She paid. Eventually I asked if she wanted to come to my place for a drink. We drank slowly, I eventually kissed her, kissed her in the neck, bit her earlobe. Khan's role in that date was centered on making me naturally attractive. I didn't have to think about "I'll say this, I'll say that." I was just in the moment, congruent, present. Everything followed from that.